Once upon the time, or maybe some days
ago, there was a guy who believed that his ex wife deserved his
friendship. Moreover, he would argue with his new couple affirming he
wouldn't take their private conversations to a halt since there was
nothing wrong in chatting with his Ex . Odd as it may seem, all his
words were far-fetched since his present couple never expected him to
stop anything, let alone required such action. Thus, she never
understood why on earth he was raising his shield and claiming “I'm
not going to live my life fearing you might feel hurt or not!” when
the only words she once said were“I simply believe that's not
correct”. Indeed, he could do whatever he wanted to do with his
former relationships, and that was hunky-dory with her since that
gave her the same freedom. If it wasn't improper for him, it wouldn't
be reprehensible for her either, would it?
Long after that, this same fellow
uploaded a pic with his previous wife and other friends to a social
network, and though by the time the picture was taken they were
divorced, this person had told his new partner that during those
days, he and his ex had had a casual sexual encounter. Come on! Wake
up boy, that' pic was so out of place!
However, when his present couple saw
the picture she decided to say nothing about it. If it was all right
for him, there was nothing to say. The problem came when he asked her
if she had seen something he had posted on his wall (not the pic but
another thing) and she said: “No, I try not to visit your profile,
there are things I prefer not to see” Oh boy, he went crazy when
she explained why.
Again he came up with his not-so-clever
statement ““I'm not going to live my life fearing you might feel
hurt or not!” and so on. He also dare to say: “You ALWAYS
complain about what I do”
Always? Complain? Wait a minute, say
what? Relax and hold your fucking horses! She never said a word about
the pic until you asked, so yelling “always” is an overreaction,
and if you hadn't insisted to know the rason, you would've NEVER
known anything. It goes without saying that when you ask a question
you may get an answer you don'tt like, then, face it!
Some men tend to believe they are never
out of place. Here's a piece of news: Most of the time they are!
Let me tell you some facts I do know.
When his wife broke up with him and left, she commented to all her
friends that he wasn't worthy, that she had to provide for him
because he didn't bring money nor he moved a finger to do it, hence,
he was a playboy. She said she deserved and looked for someone better
and richer, (like a doctor) She completly look down on him because
she considered he was less in all aspects.
I guess he doesn't know all that, but I
got the info from a reliable source, herself!
So, now either you goes and keeps
crawling around her feet until he gets his degree and worth something
for her, or pay attention when his new partner tells him something,
she may be right.
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