I'm sure this is beautiful whatever it means :o) I couldn't get into your blog/comment box last month and left a message via wordpress. Hope you rec'd it. Love & Hugs Rx
Hello, young lady! I am much older now and don't get out & about as much as I used to, or want to. But here I am and - unlike Ruth & Audrey - I do understand your poem. I am trying to imagine who did what to you that hurt so bad that you could express the feeling that you put at the end. It shocks me. That you express a desire so strongly for revenge, for that person to suffer, it shocks. It is not what I would expect of you, who always has looked for the positive and the best way to assert yourself and to fight back. I cannot feel for you. I will not preach to you about how you should react to this, or any other person who does you wrong. I will just say this, which is based on my eternal belief that a wish for revenge is as bad, and as perpetuating of bad, as whatever causes such a wish. To forgive/perdonar is THE revenge. To do so is what elevates us. It is also a psychological/emotional encouragement to ourselves to feel good about ourselves, rather than to carry the damage and to make it worse. You do not want or need a vicous circle of give bad-get bad-give worse-get worse. I do not believe you do. You have good in you. You have better in you. A vengeful heart is always going to be an unhappy heart. That is not what you want or need, my friendita. So, I urge you, think again. SXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Oh my friend Icarus, dont worry!! I just used my "licencia poetica" but I won't take revenge on anybody. I'm a lady and I know that I worth way too much to be involved in such a horrible thing as revenge. However, it felt good while I was writing it!!! I'm in the process to forgive...but it will take time. So amigo, tu me conoces bien y es verdad, yo saco afuera lo mejor de mi en los peores momentos. Sigo siendo positiva y podre caer, pero aun con las rodillas rotas, sigo adelante. Te quiero mucho :)
Mar, niña no te preocupes que es tan solo una poesia con mala rima jeje. Besitos y gracias por llegar hasta aqui.
Gracias a la presencia aqui de Mar, tengo ganas de responder en....Portugûes, lol. Ora, já fico mais descansado e aliviado, depois de ter a tua explicação. É muito importante que tu estejas ciente da potência negativa do desejo de vingarse. Bom, já esquecido. Estás convidada à vir cantar! Beijinhos, Sxxxxx
Beijinhos my dear Icarus :) Thanks God I still understand some Portugês he he, and If I don't...well I can always invent my own meanings LOL. Wait for me, I'll be there singing along xoxoxox
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I'm sure this is beautiful whatever it means :o) I couldn't get into your blog/comment box last month and left a message via wordpress. Hope you rec'd it.
Love & Hugs
Rx
Although I cant translate this Analia Im sure its very powerful and beautiful..Hope your well and that life is good.xxxxx Auds
Hello, young lady! I am much older now and don't get out & about as much as I used to, or want to.
But here I am and - unlike Ruth & Audrey - I do understand your poem.
I am trying to imagine who did what to you that hurt so bad that you could express the feeling that you put at the end. It shocks me. That you express a desire so strongly for revenge, for that person to suffer, it shocks. It is not what I would expect of you, who always has looked for the positive and the best way to assert yourself and to fight back.
I cannot feel for you. I will not preach to you about how you should react to this, or any other person who does you wrong.
I will just say this, which is based on my eternal belief that a wish for revenge is as bad, and as perpetuating of bad, as whatever causes such a wish.
To forgive/perdonar is THE revenge. To do so is what elevates us. It is also a psychological/emotional encouragement to ourselves to feel good about ourselves, rather than to carry the damage and to make it worse. You do not want or need a vicous circle of give bad-get bad-give worse-get worse. I do not believe you do.
You have good in you. You have better in you. A vengeful heart is always going to be an unhappy heart. That is not what you want or need, my friendita.
So, I urge you, think again.
SXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Caramba, Analia. Me acabas de dejar con la boca abierta.
Un abrazo, amiga.
Mar
Oh my friend Icarus, dont worry!! I just used my "licencia poetica" but I won't take revenge on anybody. I'm a lady and I know that I worth way too much to be involved in such a horrible thing as revenge. However, it felt good while I was writing it!!! I'm in the process to forgive...but it will take time. So amigo, tu me conoces bien y es verdad, yo saco afuera lo mejor de mi en los peores momentos. Sigo siendo positiva y podre caer, pero aun con las rodillas rotas, sigo adelante. Te quiero mucho :)
Mar, niña no te preocupes que es tan solo una poesia con mala rima jeje. Besitos y gracias por llegar hasta aqui.
Gracias a la presencia aqui de Mar, tengo ganas de responder en....Portugûes, lol.
Ora, já fico mais descansado e aliviado, depois de ter a tua explicação. É muito importante que tu estejas ciente da potência negativa do desejo de vingarse. Bom, já esquecido. Estás convidada à vir cantar!
Beijinhos,
Sxxxxx
Beijinhos my dear Icarus :) Thanks God I still understand some Portugês he he, and If I don't...well I can always invent my own meanings LOL. Wait for me, I'll be there singing along xoxoxox
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