WiNdS Of ChAnGe

Once upon the time, or maybe some days ago, there was a guy who believed that his ex wife deserved his friendship. Moreover, he would argue with his new couple affirming he wouldn't take their private conversations to a halt since there was nothing wrong in chatting with his Ex . Odd as it may seem, all his words were far-fetched since his present couple never expected him to stop anything, let alone required such action. Thus, she never understood why on earth he was raising his shield and claiming “I'm not going to live my life fearing you might feel hurt or not!” when the only words she once said were“I simply believe that's not correct”. Indeed, he could do whatever he wanted to do with his former relationships, and that was hunky-dory with her since that gave her the same freedom. If it wasn't improper for him, it wouldn't be reprehensible for her either, would it?

Long after that, this same fellow uploaded a pic with his previous wife and other friends to a social network, and though by the time the picture was taken they were divorced, this person had told his new partner that during those days, he and his ex had had a casual sexual encounter. Come on! Wake up boy, that' pic was so out of place!

However, when his present couple saw the picture she decided to say nothing about it. If it was all right for him, there was nothing to say. The problem came when he asked her if she had seen something he had posted on his wall (not the pic but another thing) and she said: “No, I try not to visit your profile, there are things I prefer not to see” Oh boy, he went crazy when she explained why.

Again he came up with his not-so-clever statement ““I'm not going to live my life fearing you might feel hurt or not!” and so on. He also dare to say: “You ALWAYS complain about what I do”

Always? Complain? Wait a minute, say what? Relax and hold your fucking horses! She never said a word about the pic until you asked, so yelling “always” is an overreaction, and if you hadn't insisted to know the rason, you would've NEVER known anything. It goes without saying that when you ask a question you may get an answer you don'tt like, then, face it!

Some men tend to believe they are never out of place. Here's a piece of news: Most of the time they are!

Let me tell you some facts I do know. When his wife broke up with him and left, she commented to all her friends that he wasn't worthy, that she had to provide for him because he didn't bring money nor he moved a finger to do it, hence, he was a playboy. She said she deserved and looked for someone better and richer, (like a doctor) She completly look down on him because she considered he was less in all aspects.

I guess he doesn't know all that, but I got the info from a reliable source, herself!

So, now either you goes and keeps crawling around her feet until he gets his degree and worth something for her, or pay attention when his new partner tells him something, she may be right.